Never spoil or spoil children, claiming that "the hardest part is over". A 59 year old mother gave birth to twin daughters

Wang Lin, who is two months away from her 60th birthday, gave birth to twin daughters and has become the oldest mother in Yichang, Hubei Province.

Recently, the reporter contacted Wang Lin, who retired with her husband at home and had no worries about food and clothing; My son has started a family and business in Beijing and has a daughter.

Wang Lin believes that compared to life, anything is insignificant. "The most difficult thing has passed, and the rest is the joy of family, let it be.".

Twin daughters. Dialogue with Wang Lin.

【1】 Sometimes it's just about filling in what's missing

Wang Lin: I don't have any special thoughts either, it's just that our family has a small population. There is only one granddaughter in our family. My son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter are all in Beijing. They come back once or twice a year. My brothers and sisters are few. My wife and I are the only two people in our family. Sometimes it's just about filling in what's missing. If you feel like your family is not very popular, then invite two people to play.

Wang Lin: Anyway, there was no agreement, support, or opposition. Everyone worries about their own affairs, and I didn't let them take care of them, nor did I let them take care of them, and they were too lazy to ask.

Wang Lin: It's okay, he's also idle anyway because we don't like keeping pets or traveling. When we see two cute little ones, he loves them too. A person has their own hobbies, and some people don't want to take care of anything. They just want to play and play mahjong on their own, right? I don't mind those things either.

Wang Lin: I think compared to life, anything is insignificant, especially now many young people say that if they can't give their children a good life, it's better not to have children at all. They also say that this is a kind thing. I think this is also a selfish aspect of being an only child. Not only should he live a good life, but his children should also enjoy it.

【2】 I just want twins, they bring a bit of spiciness

Wang Lin: When I was around 50 years old, I went to the hospital to consult about this matter. The doctor said that at such an old age, it was not easy for me to succeed. Perhaps there were not so many options for technology at that time. When he said that, I didn't.

Recently, when I saw a woman in her 50s and 60s giving birth, I went to a hospital in Beijing for consultation again. The hospital said that she had given birth to a child at the age of 56. I was 58 years old at that time, but the hospital said my physical condition was slightly better than theirs, and they had great confidence in me, saying they could give me a try.

Wang Lin: About one hundred thousand or so. Everyone is different, based on your own foundation and choices.

Wang Lin: Yes, some can be combined into one by putting two, while mine becomes one. The doctor said you're so old, why don't you lose one? I said I won't lose one, but I just want twins. They should be a bit spicy.

【3】 "When trained by labor force rather than the little emperor"

Wang Lin: Never spoil or spoil, cultivate independence and self-improvement early on. When they reach the age of ten or eight, the household chores will basically be left to them. To sum up, it can be summed up in one sentence: it is mainly trained as labor force rather than as a small emperor, to prevent the failure of achieving high or low results in the end, just be down-to-earth.

Wang Lin: I didn't think so much. It's better to have nature, and it's okay to be an ordinary person without it. I think as long as you can become an adult and have a correct worldview, it's not much worse. Even if it's a supermarket waiter with a monthly salary of several thousand yuan, just being able to support oneself is enough. Being ordinary is the truth.

Those anxieties are all caused by oneself. You always think about getting ahead and making a lot of money, which forms anxiety. Don't you think it's too much to demand that your child get first place, even though they can't get it themselves?

Wang Lin: Power. I used to be like a person with intellectual disabilities, either looking at stocks and losing money, or lying in bed motionless and not doing anything meaningful, feeling like I could die at any time. Why? It seems that no one needs me.

After having these two children, I at least have the motivation to dress them, get some food, and do some serious work. The two children are so cute, they look good and feel like I have at least five more years to live.

【4】 "The hardest part has passed, and the rest is the joy of family."

Wang Lin: I don't know. Some netizens also said, "In the future, if you hold a parent teacher meeting, your child will feel inferior." Oh, I only hold such a parent teacher meeting once a year. I don't want my child for this parent teacher meeting, is it because they are sick.

I am now 60 years old, and living for another 20 years should not be a problem. At that time, they will also be 20 years old and have the ability to take care of themselves. It doesn't matter if they have me or not. I think the most difficult part has passed, the rest is the joy of family, let nature take its course.

Wang Lin: Some children bring their own rations, and fate has already been arranged. I can only say that I have prepared all the provisions for twenty years and will be self-sufficient after twenty.

Wang Lin: Don't think too complicated about many things. If you think too complicated, you won't be able to do anything. Life is an experience, not to interpret perfection, but to experience the ups and downs of life.

There is nothing so good as wanting everything to be perfect. Those who can think it through can think it through, while those who can't think it through can't understand anything. Just like someone who has a broken leg, some people say, "Oh, my leg is broken, it's uncomfortable."; Some people would say, fortunately, one of my legs broke, and my life is still alive.