"Bear parents" should not be tolerated, as "bear children" passengers | children | parents frequently appear in public places
Recently, a video of a passenger yelling "crazy" to stop a bear child running, jumping, and playing in a high-speed rail corridor has attracted attention. The woman in the video shouted loudly, "Be quiet, everyone" and "I'm really angry.". After this operation, the originally noisy carriage instantly quieted down, and the flight attendant gratefully brought a bottle of water to the lady. Under the video, many netizens left comments praising the lady for "using magic to defeat magic", expressing their hope to meet passengers like her while riding the bus.
The summer season has arrived, and recently news about children causing conflicts in public places often hits the hot search. From the comments of onlookers in the previous text, some passengers are concerned about the experience of encountering "bear children" in public places. A noteworthy detail is that in this farce, the parents of the child never appeared from beginning to end, to the point where even the flight attendants expressed gratitude when passengers went crazy to solve the problem.
In fact, in public places, when conflicts arise due to children, there are often parents who do not act - but if parents immediately intervene and express apologies, they can mostly avoid the escalation of conflicts. With the progress of society, the concept of child friendliness has gradually taken root in people's hearts in recent years. I have recently encountered such situations when accompanying my child to watch movies. Some young children, due to the long duration of the film, constantly make noise and make actions that affect others. However, because the mother of the child always timely advises and apologizes to others who are affected, even if her advice does not actually stop her child's improper behavior, the surrounding audience still understands. It can be seen that good communication can play an emotional buffering role.
On the other hand, in cases that trigger intense conflicts, parents of children often let it go and even argue with others confidently. For example, in a case that occurred on the high-speed railway in Zhuzhou, Hunan a week ago, a "bear child" repeatedly pulled his hair and flicked his head at the man sitting in the front row. The harassed man not only failed to receive an apology, but was instead loudly scolded and unreasonably pushed by the child's parents, citing the reason that "he is so young and just a first grade child, what's wrong with flicking his head?". May I ask, how could the parties involved possibly calm down when encountering such a "bear parent"?
It can be seen that the actions and attitudes of parents often affect the direction of things. Therefore, when we explore whether we should be more tolerant and understanding of children in public places, it is also necessary to make a distinction based on specific situations: whether it is the "stubborn bear child" who should be educated or the "young and immature" who can be forgiven? As the first gatekeeper, if parents rely on "he is still a child" to be confident, then they are the "bear parents" who should not be tolerated.
The Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments has clear provisions that for those who disrupt the order on buses, trams, trains, ships, aircraft or other public transportation vehicles, corresponding punishments shall be imposed based on the severity of the circumstances; Keeping quiet and not disturbing others is also a basic code of conduct in public places like cinemas. Therefore, there are rules in public places, and when faced with inappropriate behavior by their children in public places, parents must take action - if their children are not sensible, parents should educate them; If parents do not educate, as guardians, they should receive corresponding punishment instead of letting "being young and immature" become a "shield" against breaking the rules.
