"Tell him to shut up," the woman roared, "You're his father, a 1-year-old baby crying on the high-speed rail in Hunan | Parents | Baby."

In public places, children's crying always gives people a headache. However, a woman actually yelled at her 1-year-old baby and parents for crying on the high-speed train.

On August 18th, on a high-speed train in Hunan, a baby who cried incessantly angered a nearby female passenger and shouted at her parents, "You're his father, please make him shut up.". According to the photographer's description, the child actually cried for at most 5 minutes.

According to the video content, the woman has been repeating disrespectful and impolite words like "can you make him shut up?" to the parents of the child. Her voice is so loud that it even covers the crying of the baby, making the entire passenger in the carriage "sideways".

Faced with the aggressive attitude of the woman, the parents of the child explained that the child is only so old and crying is uncontrollable. He is already going to cry, how can he be comforted?

However, the woman did not understand this and simply demanded that the parents immediately comfort the child. The nearby passenger also kindly advised the woman, "He is still a child," but was rebuked by the woman, "He is not my child.".

This incident has also triggered some netizens to reflect.

@Feng * * Tea: I have always felt that this is not about looking at children or parents. If parents are clearly in charge, then it can be understood. If parents don't care and don't ask, then I have to say two simple things.

@Cause: OMG, he's only one year old. He can't even control himself by defecating and urinating. How can he control himself not to cry? He's not five or six years old

@4 * *: How noble is she to exhaust a one year old child's voice? In fact, from the performance of the video, it seems that when I was young, I wouldn't have let others worry. Under the instigation and demonstration of some unscrupulous ways, we have lost the most basic sympathy. It can be said that we will not have children, but everyone has grown up from children.

@23 * * Yang: Actually, parents can take their children to the connection point of the carriage

@H_ * * Yuan: Are we being so strict with children over a year old now

@Coconut: You cannot define a one year old child as a bear child. People come from infancy, and babies have the right to cry. She is different from older children, and parents cannot control her

@Love comes: It's just "crying for less than five minutes"

@Yan * * Hand: Being one year old is too much. Please be more tolerant, it's not like being five or six years old... Unfortunately, the short videos of giant babies in their 40s are not being watched by parents.

@娵 * *: A few years ago, I encountered a child crying on a train with a fever reducing patch on their forehead. Then, the people in this carriage took turns comforting the child, carrying them back and forth, grabbing their attention and teasing them, and finding snacks for them... Why is it that people nowadays have such poor tolerance?

@Shan * * * g: A one year old baby can't understand and tolerate even crying a few times? The distortion of personality has reached such a point that there is no cure.

Some netizens have stated that children can only cry for up to 5 minutes at most, and when passing through tunnels, adults sometimes feel uncomfortable in their ears, let alone children. Therefore, this netizen calls on society to be more tolerant and understand the nature of children.

It is indeed somewhat challenging to ask a child over a year old not to cry, as their brain development is not yet sufficient to control their own behavior. Crying is a way of expressing one's needs, which requires parents to carefully analyze, identify the reasons for their child's crying, and find corresponding countermeasures.

This woman can't stand the crying and fussing of her child, which is understandable. The key to the problem is not only that she forced others, but also spoke rudely. Tell the child to "shut up" and look angry, thinking they have reason and going to argue with their parents. If you really have any objections, you can speak well and also seek help from the flight attendant to solve the problem.

In small public spaces, everyone should have a tolerant and inclusive heart. It can be affirmed that as parents, they also do not want to hear their own children cry and do not want their actions to disturb others. Currently, there are also many news reports of children crying and arguing on high-speed trains, leading to arguments and physical altercations between both parties, which has led many people to have the idea of not wanting to take their children on high-speed trains.

In this news message, some parents also expressed their unwillingness to take their children on the high-speed rail, either fearing malicious attacks or watching others' faces, and not wanting to be subservient just because they want to take their children out.

Many parents know that raising children is a laborious task. Children are naturally active and emotional in their words and actions. Not to mention children over a year old, even those who are three or four years old, there are also situations where they often cry and fuss. In a noisy environment, good words may not necessarily persuade them well. Every child has different development and temperament, there is really no ruler. Anyway, the key to the matter lies in the attitude of the parents, whether they are actively dealing with the problem. Fear is fear. Parents use their children's young age and lack of understanding as a shield, even being protective of their children and not listening to any opinions. They angrily scold or even take action against other people's suggestions, which is not right.

Moreover, if these news are frequently reported, causing parents to no longer take their children out, it is also not the consequence that the public hopes to see.

Whether a child cries or makes noise still depends on whether the parents have taken action. There is no original sin in taking children out. Even if encountering individual misunderstandings, communicate and negotiate well, and have a friendly attitude. If encountering such unreasonable passengers, parents can also request the flight attendants to handle it, there is no need to argue about a winner.

In fact, when disputes arise in the car due to noise issues, not just children crying? Loud phone calls and conversations are like arguments or playing music on mobile phones, all of which are disruptive actions to the public. Everyone should have a sense of civilization in a small space, and when encountering uncivilized behavior, solve problems with a civilized attitude.