Learning Times: Young cadres should learn to "talk about their daily life". They should know their family's strengths and weaknesses, and have a good conversation about their daily lives. They should be familiar with the cadres, the masses, and the common people
I often hear young cadres complain about their intention to communicate with ordinary people, and they also run to their homes every day. However, they are struggling to chat and often get stuck without saying a few words. Sometimes, even both sides cannot connect, and they just say dry, insincere, or empty headed "polite" and "New Year's greetings", not to mention "chatting happily". This awkwardness and helplessness expose the shortcomings and shortcomings of some young cadres who are not very good at chatting with the common people, which is worth paying attention to.
"Chatting about daily life" is to talk about family stories that people understand, are interested in, and are very concerned about, and to talk about topics that can resonate and resonate with the people. A family's daily routine is full of vitality and vitality, and is often an indispensable part of the people's lives. It is a barometer, barometer, and measuring instrument for the quality of life of the people. "Talking about family routine" is to talk about things that are beneficial and useful to the people, and to talk about truth, truth, and inner thoughts. The ability of young cadres to chat about daily life is a major indicator of practicing the correct view of political achievements and an important reflection of their ability to work with the masses.
In rural communities, cadres who can "get in, chat, and eat" can truly understand the urgent needs and concerns of the masses, and feel their thoughts and concerns. Wood, rice, oil, and salt reflect the daily lives of the people, while family background and family background reflect the psychology of the people. Employment, education, medical treatment, and other matters that are most related to the immediate interests of the people are ordinary but unusual. By reading a large amount of information and discussing more about these aspects, one can understand the situation of the people; Chatting about daily life can bring us closer and enhance our thoughts and emotions. Being able to talk and engage in everyday matters means that the people treat you as a family member, a friend, and a confidant, which is a great trust. It means that everyone unloads their burdens, takes off their masks, opens up their hearts, and opens up the window to speak frankly. In this sense, learning to "chat about daily life" means learning to make friends with the people, resolving doubts and doubts through "chat about daily life", and making people's work at home.
Talking about everyday life may seem simple, but it's not easy to truly get started and have a good conversation. To have a good conversation, young cadres must first have something in their stomachs. A belly full of ink is better than a belly full of alcohol. Knowing more is the key to having topics and discussions, and facilitating communication and interaction. Imagine a person who doesn't know anything and doesn't know anything, what would they use to chat with others?This requires paying attention to regular learning, accumulating knowledge in daily life, learning more from the masses, learning from the masses as teachers, and learning more from practice. Practice should be regarded as a big school, only in this way can there be discussion resources, and topics can be constantly created through communication and interaction. To have a good conversation, young cadres still need to put down their airs. Back then, writer Liu Qing wrote "A History of Entrepreneurship" to delve into life, treating herself as an ordinary local farmer, wearing a coat and holding a dry tobacco bag, sneaking into the pile of farmer friends and almost indistinguishable, completely blending in with the farmers. Holding one's airs will only make one speechless, putting it down will make one speechless. To have a good conversation, young cadres need to speak more popular language and speak some plain language. In Zhao Nanxing's "Laughing Praise" of the Ming Dynasty, there is a story about "scholars buying firewood". The scholar asked, "What is the price?" The seller of firewood quoted the price. The scholar once again said, "The outside is solid but the inside is empty, there is a lot of smoke but little flame, please damage it." The seller of firewood was confused and couldn't understand the scholar's words, so he picked up the firewood and left. Young cadres should not talk to themselves, play and sing to themselves like this scholar. The discourse system and discourse style should be changed. More words that touch the ground, emit heat and smoke, and more words that touch dew, smell of earth and smell of life. To be honest, to be honest, and to speak from the heart, do not easily hum, haha, use official language, sing high pitched, or even refrain from speaking human language. Only by speaking with emotions can one speak with warmth and emotion.
"Talking about family life" may seem like it's about family background, but in reality, it's about ability and level, about thoughts and emotions, about style and conduct. There is a lot of knowledge and potential in this.
