His son spoke up, but Uncle was not secretly filmed and was still exposed. Father | Woman | Exposed
Recently, the incident of "Uncle suspected of secretly taking selfies to prove his innocence but still exposed by a woman" on Guangzhou Metro Line 8 has attracted attention.
On June 7th, on Line 8 of the Guangzhou Metro in Guangdong, a woman saw an old man squatting and playing with his phone. She suspected that the other person was secretly taking a photo of her and requested to check her photo album. After the uncle agreed to let her check the photo album and prove her innocence, the woman still exposed on the internet that the uncle was a lewd man, claiming that his skillful techniques were not the first time he committed the crime, and stating that since he did not secretly take photos, why did he not speak up for herself.
Screenshots of online videos
On the afternoon of June 9th, Guangzhou Metro staff responded that the police had intervened in the handling, and because it was a misunderstanding, the two sides had already reconciled at that time. On June 11th, a reporter from Qilu Evening News and Qilu Yidian contacted Mr. Deng, the son of the uncle involved in the incident. He told reporters that he only found out last night that his father was treated as a "lewd man" by the woman and posted on the internet. Previously, his father and the woman reached a settlement through police mediation because he had no understanding of the woman's online exposure of his seriousness.
"Last night, my friend saw my father on his phone and forwarded it to me, and I only found out that this matter had been exposed online." Mr. Deng said, "My father is a migrant worker. He didn't work that day because it rained on the construction site, so he wanted to take a walk in Guangzhou. I didn't expect to encounter this incident on the way back by subway.".
"My father didn't take any photos secretly, and I showed her my phone album to prove that I didn't take any photos, but the woman still posted him online." Mr. Deng said that on June 9th, the police asked my father to go to the police station, and the woman was also present. "My father didn't know she had posted herself online, so he reached a settlement with her."
Mr. Deng said that his father is 56 years old this year and has been honest all his life. He doesn't usually go online or use complex smartphones. He used to print the QR code he used for receiving payments when opening a motorcycle. Because my father doesn't know how to read news online, he doesn't know the seriousness of the woman's behavior.
"My dad thought deleting the video he sent out would be enough. He didn't know that the internet could reproduce and spread it," Mr. Deng said. Currently, he couldn't contact the woman who posted the video, and he hoped that she could publicly apologize. "This incident has had a huge impact on us online, and we hope she can come forward and publicly apologize, otherwise we will sue her."
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Defamation and bullying are not rights protection
It is understandable that young women may have some allergies in crowded places, and it is also difficult to obtain evidence of sexual harassment. If this girl, after being identified by the police as having a bad reputation, gives up on it, or even if she posts a social update afterwards, just reminding the girls around her to be careful not to take photos, it will not cause public outrage. However, this highly educated woman still chooses to slander and defame the other party without any hesitation, regardless of the harm that her framing or online violence may cause to the other party.
What supports a person to confidently slander and cyberbullying others? After reading so many books, I chose hatred and paranoia, but chose exquisite selfishness. The ancients said: A heart without shame and evil is not human; A heart without right or wrong is not human. Knowing shame and understanding good and evil is the foundation of being a good person. Knowing that "my rights have not been infringed upon" and resorting to so-called "rights protection" is like hitting porcelain, which is a symbol of stealing women's rights to "legally harm" innocent people.
Knowing one's mistakes and not correcting them, using forceful language and reasoning, seriously undermines the social credibility of women's rights protection and promotes gender division in society. The victims are not only specific individuals who have been falsely accused, but also the female community itself. Women's awareness of their rights is high, and they firmly say no to sexual harassment, which is a manifestation of social progress. However, there have also been some people deliberately exaggerating gender opposition and conflicts, using them as traffic passwords. This is worthy of vigilance.
Learning to protect one's rights also requires learning to respect the rights of others. Gender equality is not a tool for bullying others. Is it difficult to say "I'm sorry" to the middle-aged uncle who was misunderstood and slandered by oneself?
